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It seems like you are someone who appreciates the fun of flirting from a position of safety, whether the security of a relationship or just through physical distance. Because you do not appear to flirt all the time, you seem to have a healthy respect for the potential consequences of the game. There is nothing wrong with innocent flirting, as long as everyone has the information they need to make informed decisions. So, if you remain as respectful and conscious of the feelings of others as you appear to be, then what's wrong with flirting a little and enjoying yourself?
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There are some times when flirting can be a risky activity - namely, when you are interested in someone and it's not just about playing a game, but about pursuing someone for a relationship. You appear to be someone who does not want to take risks in this area. You are probably not willing to put yourself out there, for fear of being embarrassed or rejected. This can be a positive protective behavior, or it can sabotage the pursuit of what you want. It might be good for you to stretch your comfort limits a little, and try something new. Don't wait for that person to come to you - go to them!
Physical and Direct
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Being physical and direct seems to be something that you are at least mildly comfortable with. There are many ways to express one's interest and attraction to someone, and you seem to be relatively comfortable going the physical route. It appears, however, that you also hold back a little. This hesitation could imply that you don't always feel comfortable getting into someone else's space, or that you only do it when you feel that it is appropriate and non-threatening. This tendency can be good because it means your intentions won't often be misunderstood.
Nonphysical and Subtle
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You sure know how to play that flirting game!! There are some people who prefer the subtle, non-physical route to attracting the attention they desire from others, and you seem to be a master of such social intricacies. One of the best things about this approach is how it allows you to pursue what you want without being blatant. And you can play innocent and coy if something you did gets taken out of context or misunderstood. You are probably someone who likes to play the subtler end of the game of flirting, and it seems that you know the rules pretty well.
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